I need to pray more. We naturally become like those we spend the most time with, so the more time I spend with Him, the more I will become like Him.
I verbalized something recently that I shouldn't have, that called attention toward myself. Modesty is not only about dress. It is about not standing out. Not calling attention toward oneself. What I said wasn't offensive. It was immodest. For dress, modesty is the same - it can mean wearing something pretty and stylish so as to fit in, but neither overly beautiful nor so plain that it's dowdy. Either extreme calls unnecessary attention.